A meme featuring a man pointing to his temple with the text “Useless Internet Phrase #37: ‘Admin please delete if not allowed,’” implying that the phrase is ineffective and unnecessary in Facebook group posts.

Why You Should Stop Saying “Delete If Not Allowed” in Facebook Groups

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Let’s chat about a phrase that’s worn out its welcome in Facebook groups—“Delete if not allowed.” If you’ve ever typed delete if not allowed in Facebook groups, it’s okay! You’re not alone. But let’s talk about why it’s time to retire that phrase for good, especially in community-focused spaces like POSH. What You’re Really Saying

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Woman looking at her phone with serious expression. Text on image reads “Unsolicited compliments aren’t harmless — they’re boundary violations.” POSH logo in top corner.

Unsolicited Compliments Aren’t Harmless—They’re Boundary Violations

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Why DMs from men on non-dating platforms feel invasive, much like unsolicited compliments, and why it’s not the same as getting spammed by scammers. The other day, I posted in a neighborhood forum to ask if anyone recognized a stray cat that had taken up residence in my backyard. Within hours, I got a message

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