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Unicorn Hunting in Polyamory: 5 Reasons It’s Harmful (and Why POSH Says No)

Unicorn hunting in polyamory is one of the most debated topics in non-monogamous communities. At POSH, we often hear confusion about why we welcome all forms of ethical polyamory but set clear boundaries against unicorn hunting. The answer is simple: while triads are valid and can thrive, the practice of couples “looking for a third”

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Why You Should Stop Saying “Delete If Not Allowed” in Facebook Groups

Let’s chat about a phrase that’s worn out its welcome in Facebook groups—“Delete if not allowed.” If you’ve ever typed delete if not allowed in Facebook groups, it’s okay! You’re not alone. But let’s talk about why it’s time to retire that phrase for good, especially in community-focused spaces like POSH. What You’re Really Saying